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Etymology

flirt

/flɜːrt/

verb

Origin

Middle English

flirten — to flick, to sneer

Overview

Meaning Now

  • To behave in a way that suggests a playful sexual or romantic attraction to someone.
  • To move or jerk suddenly; to flick or dart.
  • To consider or dally with a proposal or possibility without serious commitment.

Literal older meaning

To flick or toss away suddenly.

Language path

Middle English → English

Earliest form

flirt

Earliest period

16th century

Journey

The word originated as an imitative (onomatopoeic) sound describing a quick, darting movement. Over centuries, the concept of 'tossing' things aside evolved into 'tossing' words or attitudes at people, eventually centering on the playful, non-committal social interactions now known as flirting.

Evolution

  1. 16th century

    flirt

    “a sudden flick, a jerk”

    Used as an onomatopoeic word imitating a quick, sharp motion.

  2. 17th century

    flirt

    “to speak disparagingly or to behave saucily”

    The sense of 'sassy' behavior led to the association with romantic playfulness.

  3. 18th century

    flirt

    “to play at courtship”

    Established in its modern sense of engaging in lighthearted romantic behavior.

Connections

Word parts

flirt

root

quick motion

Related across languages

  • Low German

    flirt

    a quick movement

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